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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DW usually goes to bed around 10pm while I stay up until midnight.   Does anybody else have a similar difference in bedtime?  I sometimes like the time to myself after she is in bed, but it is often lonely.  This loneliness leads to too much time online, too much porn and generally feeling less engaged with DW.

Initiating sex can't be as spontaneous because we aren't in bed awake at the same time.

We both wake up around 7am, so there's no schedule driven reason for her to go to bed that early.[/quote]

I bet she loves that time to herself. Why can't you enjoy those two hours without porn or other things? That I find weird and kind of needy. Imo when you live with someone you see each other every day. Your time alone  shouldn't feel lonely. Sex imo doesn't have anything to do with loneliness. Sounds like you need better ways to fill up that time.[/quote]

I agree.  Isnt there anything more productive you can do during that time?  Exercise so that you can be home earlier?  Make kids lunches?  Prep the coffee maker?  Learn a second language?  Read James Joyce?  Prepare something above and beyond for work?   Write the great American novel?  Two hours a day is a lot of time.[/quote]

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