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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My DW has a Fed job with flex hours and she snoozes to work 6am to 2:30pm to avoid rush hour commuting. By doing this she is on bed at 9am and up at 4:30am.

She chooses this over having any bedroom time with me. I now know what is important in her life.[/quote]

Why don't you try going to bed at 9:30 with her? I also have a fed job with flex time, and it is such a benefit. Go to bed with her. Her coming home at 2:30 means she can do all those house things you don't have to do (kids? cleaning? groceries? lawn? dog walking? making dinner? The likes). By you choosing to stay up over having bedroom time tells me what is important in your life. It isn't your wife.[/quote]

That's another way to view it. However, 4:30 is early so she probably needs her sleep. Everyone is assuming the other spouse wants to have sex every night when realistically they don't.  One can't expect the other spouse to always fulfill those needs. I would say shoot for Saturday night when you don't have to get up at the crack of dawn. If it's mutual great, a job or duty than no.[/quote]

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