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Reply to "Girlfriend is demanding that we get married and have a baby ASAP"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's OK to also tell her what YOU feel/need/want. If the answer is, "I love you but I'm just not ready", that's OK. Her choice to wait or not. I'd tell her I need (x amount of time - another year?) and that you promise a definite answer at that time. She's made her goals clear, don't string her along once you figure out (if you figure out) that it's not what you want.[/quote] Generally I agree, but another year?! That's cruel at their ages. OP should know whether he wants to get married again, whether he wants more kids, and generally whether he wants it to be with her. Maybe another few months to work that out and communicate it, but if I were her and OP was being wishy washy and not taking me seriously I'd be on my way out. [/quote]
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