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[quote=Anonymous]Yes. Although I agree with posters who said as DH gets older he takes on some of their traits, and I also blame his parents for some of his flaws. Examples: MIL and FIL, MIL especially, are so incredibly helpless. They don't deal with their own problems- everything becomes a large family crisis. I cringe when I see DH pulling the helpless victim card. I also blame MIL for DH's lack of ability to handle emotions well and lack of cleanliness. MIL "doesn't do" emotions. As a child, she scolded her kids for crying or being unable to express what they were feeling. MIL also was a spoiled princess who never did any domestic housework or cooking. I CANNOT STAND how this has manifested in DH (and siblings). They don't clean up after themselves. Always waiting for someone else to do it, since growing up, there was always paid help cleaning up and cooking. Sigh. [/quote]
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