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[quote=Anonymous]I recently posted about estranged in-laws. I definitely would be hesitant to have a relationship with family who are abusive. Like I said in my previous post, FIL is very abusive to DH and to me. Although he has not been emotionally abusive to DS yet, I can't say that will continue once DS can talk and have opinions of his own. In addition, I don't think my FIL really wants a relationship with the grandkids for the sake of the grandkids. He wants the grandkids and everyone else to idolize him but not actually spend quality time with them. For example, during Christmas one year, he complained that everyone was focused on DS (who was two) and not on him. I also strongly suspect FIL has undiagnosed borderline personality disorder. Nothing will change him, nor my MIL who enables him.[/quote]
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