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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]IDK. I've been divorced twice. I was married once, briefly in my early twenties. We were more like friends. A lot of people moved in together and then moved out a few years later; we just happened to marry. 
2nd husband was married for 11 years, 2 kids. He became a raging drug addict and moved away.

I get that I may have chosen poorly ([b]although all friends say there was really no way to predict that![/b]) I've been divorced for 10 years and really feel like I've wiped the slate clean. I've done a lot of self examination in those years. [/quote]

So with #1 you showed your are very impulsive. Not a good trait.
#2 you showed bad judgment in choosing a mate.
Yeah, it's YOU.[/quote]

To be fair, I think a lot of people just say stuff like this to be supportive of their friends.  And I think other people aren't the most observant, so they don't pick up on much anyway.  When the second group of people claim to have not seen it coming, they're probably right, because they don't pay attention.

My friend recently got divorced, and she asked me if I thought it was going to happen.  I've sworn on everything holy that I didn't think her marriage would have fallen apart in the way it ended up ending.  Meanwhile, my husband and I were in our hotel room at their wedding after the reception discussing the fact that it was obvious that they were a poor fit.  I'd never tell her the truth, which is that both she and her exhusband just didn't have the skill set to stay married.[/quote]

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