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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My wife left me, and complained on DCUM about the financial offer I gave

[url]http://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/598867.page[/url]

Someone I know showed me the thread, thinking it sounded like my situation.  Yeah...it was.  I joined in on page 7.

In the end, in January, I filed for divorce.  For cause -- proved adultery.  She would not agree to anything short of 1/2 my (inherited & grown money).  Because of the thread, which was admitted into evidence, ex ended up with very little.  The judge yelled at her -- told her if she could, she would give me all the marital assets.  Instead, she got no alimony, 1/2 401k (430K), and I bought her out of her half of the house.  Plus, because DD is living with me, ex has to pay child support -- $500/month.  (has not happened yet)

I have a house that is paid for, 4.8 mil in assets (was 4 in Dec, but market did well).

She is living in a crappy apartment, and was also dumped by the ex.  Oh, DD will not speak to her right now.

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GOOD FOR YOU! THAT WAS KARMA.  Your ex sounds like an awful person.  [/quote]

Am I the only one who thinks the exhusband sounds much worse than the exwife? Why wouldn't he use at least a little of that money to fix up the house? Shows that he was never really fully committed to the marriage, if you ask me.

And what is really low.. who GLOATS about the fact that a daughter won't speak to her mother? A good father will try to build understanding between his children and their mother. Not revel in the destruction of their relationship. Using the children against an ex-spouse is about as low as it gets, parenting-wise.[/quote]

Disagree. He said earlier he didn't have to tell his daughter because she figured it out when mom moved into a one-bedroom apartment with another guy. Reporting here that his daughter is not talking to the mom, however it sounds to you, is way different from bad-mouthing the mom to the daughter, which does put the daughter right in the middle.

FWIW, my ex tried to use the kids against me, the kids both saw right through it, and both were estranged from him for most of the year after he left.

Also, we don't know what he was planning to do with the money. Maybe he was getting ready to shell out for the kitchen she said she wanted, right up to the moment she gave him chlamydia. Maybe he was thinking of buying a new house--$600k isn't a lot for a house on this area, especially for somebody sitting on $4m. You have no idea about whether he's stingy.[/quote]

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