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[quote=Anonymous]My MIL has health issues and lives across the country so her being in the room was never even discussed (she wasn't even in the room for SILs kids being born and was fine with it). My own mother was adamant that she be there when I gave birth and that I would need her. I really didn't want her there as she stresses me out and gets shitty with authority figures like nurses and doctors at every opportunity but I let her guilt me into agreeing that she could be there. Thankfully, I gave birth two weeks late on the only two days she absolutely couldn't attend and I am SO HAPPY she wasn't there. I had a very long labor, was pushing for several hours and I just know I would have lost my shit had my mom been there. I love the woman, LOVE HER, but her being there would have been a complete disaster. Go with your gut and only allow people there that you want there. It isn't a birthday party, it's a birth. [/quote]
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