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[quote=Anonymous]Studies have shown that the problems (and fights) you have today, you'll have 20 years from now. So unless you are ready to deal with his family and coming in 2nd for the rest of your life, you have to break up with him.

First thing you do is line up your support team--tell you BFF and/or family. But only people who will support you.

Then you tell him. You tell him that nothing has changed, he will not change and he shouldn't have to change. This isn't about him being wrong. It has to do with you two not being compatible. He will promise to change. Don't believe him. He's had plenty of time to put you first. And he hasn't.

If you (stupidly) decide to believe he will change, at least postpone the wedding. And wait at least 1-2 years to see if he really has changed or if it was a lie to keep you around.

But if you are strong and don't believe his lies, then block him on all social media, go out of town for a few days, block his number and start calling vendors (or have friends and family call).

You can do this. You aren't the first bride to call off her wedding, you won't be the last. [/quote]

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