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[quote=Anonymous]You did not get into a "fight" with your 3 year old, you are buying into letting him have the power to upset you. Don't let it upset you anymore. My husband has said things like this before because he is dramatic and has a horrible temper, things he will recognize about himself when not angry. Situations escalate when you are hurt and creating battle lines. Stop giving your child the power to upset you re this silly preference issue and stop catering to him all the time; let your husband do half the classes. You are creating an unhealthy dynamic. As for your husband, you clearly don't like his parents and you feel mistreated there. Don't go again. The best way to fix this whole dynamic would be to have another kid - you and your husband are competing for this kid's affection and it is damaging the whole dynamic - but that doesn't sound wise. [/quote]
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