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The problem is he feels that you don't respect him and part of that may be the mismatch in sex drive.  Women want to be loved and men want to be respected .  When that dynamic breaks all those other symptoms you listed were resentment. You should talk to him very deeply and sincerely about respect, love and the deepest human desires.  See what happens.[/quote]

OP here. Thanks for your input. But if I tell him that I need to feel loved, that will not make him love me. Same the other way around. I actually show him a lot of respect. I always listen to his work issues, say that he did a good job, that he shouldn't sell himself short, etc.

Yes, he hates me, I guess mostly because of the sexual discrepancy. I can literally feel the anger and hatred. This affects his relationship with our daughter, too. He says that I am too lenient with her and she should simply do as told, while I say that it is important to explain the reasons to her and sometimes even give her some slack.[/quote]

PP here. You sound like a really wonderful person. I'm a male btw.  You seem really nice and self reflective. Wow.[/quote]

OP here. Thanks, PP. I haven't heard that in a long time.[/quote]

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