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PP here. More often than not, it's how guys segway into sexting. As a result, [b]I make it clear up front that I do not exchange photos via text. I point out the fact that my photos are all labeled with the month and year they were taken, including photos from the current month, and that I obviously haven't gained 1000 lbs in the past few days or changed my looks drastically, so they either have to trust those photos or move on to someone else[/b]. [/quote]

Maybe this is an age thing and I am guessing that this PP is skewing younger (&lt;35)?

If I have tons of pix in my application and a guy still asks for more &quot;current&quot; pictures I would not even respond at all.  It is self-explanatory.  We all have to take a risk that the person is not who they say they are.

I am a women, btw, and all I need of the guy is a close-up of the head (preferably smiling), a full body shot (to assess physical appearance) and maybe one fun pix.  If those look decent and you are my required age range and height, I will contact you.[/quote]

PP here. Maybe it's an age thing? I'm a female and 34, but the guys I go for tend to be 36 and older. Usually the ones over 40 are the ones why try to sway the conversation to something more risqué.

I am actually in the process of filing a peace order against someone on OkCupid due to harassment that crossed the line from stalking on the internet to in-person stalking, so regardless of your age, please be careful and take all proper precautions. And if anyone gives you any issues or you feel even remotely alarmed by anyone's behavior, don't hesitate to report them and block them. I tend to be too nice and give people the benefit of the doubt, and this time, I ended up getting burned by it.[/quote]

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