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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Thanks everyone. I think if she gets the help she needs, we can get back on track.[/quote] Good luck, it sounds like you like her, maybe tell her what you like about her. Remind her that you are nothing like her ex husband. We should never underestimate how much our partners past tragedies and challenges make them who they are. Many people in relationships don't take the time to really learn about the other person. I am a doctor and I remember dating when I was young, it was always a disaster. I was always tired on dates since my only day off was after a 24 hour call shift. I could be grumpy, but more often, unmotivated to do anything. I appeared to be a surly bore. In those 120 hour work weeks, only one man ever said that he noticed that I was tired. He was the only one who suggested that I take more time for myself. He sympathized with me, instead of criticizing me. He was also one of the smartest men I ever dated. My point is that we all need to show more concern and caring. The previous suggestions to bolt are reckless, as that action would only weaken her more. This still might not work out, but try your best. If you do leave, leave her with tools that she can use to strengthen herself. [/quote]
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