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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.  Even thouh we found the perfect donor, I think dh is leaning toward not doing DE and just TTC on our own for one more year, then closing up shop if not pregnant by then.  I think he is overwhelmed by the logistics of choosing a new clinic, paying $40K for the IVF plus donor fee plus agency fee plus other expenses, and having no guarantee that it will work with my immune issues problem.  He already feels that 40 is too old to be pregnant (he is 40).  He believes that my immune issues problem is my bigger infertility issue, but like me is very hesitant about the immune treatments (neither of us wants to do them).  [/quote]

After a 9w loss of twins from my OE IVF cycle, I was ready to move on to DEs. We had been doing treatments (IUI and IVF) for 2 years and I wanted our family to grow n.o.w. DE is not a sure-thing, nor is it a quick process. If you want a family, don't put off another year...go for it now. Your post talks a lot about what way DH is leaning and he thinks and feels--where are you on all those points? Sounds like he is okay not having kids--are you at that point, as well? SG's guarantee gave us a great sense of security that we'd either be leaving with a baby or leaving with our $31K back in the bank. (Happily we did not need a refund.)

Lots to think about--GL.[/quote]

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