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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I was much more empathetic to you before you indicated your "contempt" for them. Notebook poster gave you some really helpful suggestions about training your mind to look for the good in people, which will help you train your feelings to view the best in your in-laws, and you shut her down hard. I don't think you really want to change your feelings, I think you just want us to tell you it is OK to look down on your saintly but not interesting in-laws. It isn't really OK to have contempt for good people who aren't interesting to you. [/quote] I know contempt is ugly. I am trying to do a good job of naming my feelings. I often feel contempt. Sorry! I don't ever show it, OK?[/quote]
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