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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Even thouh we found the perfect donor, I think dh is leaning toward not doing DE and just TTC on our own for one more year, then closing up shop if not pregnant by then. I think he is overwhelmed by the logistics of choosing a new clinic, paying $40K for the IVF plus donor fee plus agency fee plus other expenses, and having no guarantee that it will work with my immune issues problem. He already feels that 40 is too old to be pregnant (he is 40). He believes that my immune issues problem is my bigger infertility issue, but like me is very hesitant about the immune treatments (neither of us wants to do them). [/quote] Well you need his cooperation if you want to continue fertility treatments. If he refuses to provide his genetic material for IVF (whether OE or DE) you can't move forward. Unless you would consider leaving DH and doing DE+donor sperm. But that's a very different scenario.[/quote]
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