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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My husband's OW was about 50 pounds overweight and basically my physical opposite (I'm 5'2, large chest/rear end, brunette, brown eyes; she was 5'9, bleached blonde hair, flat chested and no rear end, grey eyes).  I am objectively more physically more attractive.

But she was very effusive about him, constantly telling him how great he is, baking him cupcakes, etc.  I was not as over the moon about him due to a variety of reasons that had arisen in our marriage.  I think she made him feel amazing.  I did not.  There is no excuse for what he did and it may destroy our marriage completely, but I totally understand enjoying adoration.  And he did the same for her.  Must feel good to have someone shower you with constant compliments.  [/quote]

I know the OW love to hear it, but this infuriates me.  See how ga-ga she is and how many cupcakes she bakes after she has to live with him for a while.  [b]Of course it's enjoyable, when you're in a bubble where no one has any responsibilities whatsoever.[/b][/quote]

This is the crux of affairs. A fantasy land. No bills to pay. No sick kids to deal with. No piano lesson to hustle the kids to. Just a hotel room and great sex, probably in ways your spouse hasn't done in years if ever. The bottom line is OWs are often waaaaaay more sexually adventurous and sex-crazy than wives. Until they get married. Then they turn all that off. And get cheated on. And the cycle begins anew ...[/quote]

Yes, that is exactly why I enjoyed my affair. [/quote]

I enjoyed mine because of the Os. The ones I wasn't getting from my H.[/quote]

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