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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My husband's OW was about 50 pounds overweight and basically my physical opposite (I'm 5'2, large chest/rear end, brunette, brown eyes; she was 5'9, bleached blonde hair, flat chested and no rear end, grey eyes).  I am objectively more physically more attractive.

But she was very effusive about him, constantly telling him how great he is, baking him cupcakes, etc.  I was not as over the moon about him due to a variety of reasons that had arisen in our marriage.  I think she made him feel amazing.  I did not.  There is no excuse for what he did and it may destroy our marriage completely, but I totally understand enjoying adoration.  And he did the same for her.  Must feel good to have someone shower you with constant compliments.  [/quote]

I know the OW love to hear it, but this infuriates me.  See how ga-ga she is and how many cupcakes she bakes after she has to live with him for a while.  [b]Of course it's enjoyable, when you're in a bubble where no one has any responsibilities whatsoever.[/b][/quote]

This is the crux of affairs. A fantasy land. No bills to pay. No sick kids to deal with. No piano lesson to hustle the kids to. Just a hotel room and great sex, probably in ways your spouse hasn't done in years if ever. [b]The bottom line is OWs are often waaaaaay more sexually adventurous and sex-crazy than wives[/b]. Until they get married. Then they turn all that off. And get cheated on. And the cycle begins anew ...[/quote]

Goes for single women in general. DW used to send me flirty texts, sexual emails, used to blow me regularly. Marriage ended that shit. Nothing kills libido and sexual adventure like a wedding ring[/quote]

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