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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You should have denied it all.[/quote]
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Never disclosed all of your business to a man.  Some men can't handle the sexual history of women.  Many are intimidated by more experienced women.   Even the most liberal and open minded man will get his ego crushed if you disclosed certain information to him.  Unfortunately, there is still a double standard in society regarding women and sex.  Keep your past in the past.  It serves no good to share your past with others including your women friends.  Quite a few Americans in general are very prudish and close-minded when it comes to all things regarding the sexuality of women.  Don't ever mistake that a woman friend has your best interests in heart when you disclosed personal sexual information about yourself.  They will always used it to their advantage to sabotage you.  Lesson learned keep your business to yourself always.  However, your husband sounds insecure or maybe jealous that you're more experienced than him.  Some men like to think that they have the upper hand in the sexual department.                [/quote]

Excellent post. I want to add that many people do not respect someone who sleeps around. Male or female. It can translate as a lack of judgement, or the other partner may fear getting a undiagnosed STD in the future. I suspect her husband though she was a little smarter, and I'll bet this woman exaggerated things.

Basically never tell too much, people can and will use it against you.  I've told things I wished I never did, people will bring it up years later. Be smart. [/quote]

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