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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=ZachF][quote=Anonymous]

I totally get that. The way he found out was really *hitty I know.

[b]He's also upset that i did what he views as stuff that doesn't interest me in doing with him[/b] which he takes as a sort of insult or something. Anyway this has just spiralled
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Yeah, this has gone from bad to worse.  Now he has the image of you doing those things your "friend" may have graphically described, with the knowledge that, while you were fine with doing those things with past guys who now mean nothing, you aren't willing to gift those same things to your husband.  THAT is shitty and begs the question, why not?[/quote]

You know the thing is that I HAVE told him that ALL the guys before him meant nothing and that's why it was possible that I got into certain stuff. With hubby I knew he was different in all good ways and I wanted to make sure that we started something real and meaningful - which we did. It's not like I don't love or care about him - I absolutely do!   But I get that he feels humiliated to find out and figures everybody knows (even though everybody doesn't know). I need to convince him of that[/quote]

I hope you both make sure this woman is out of your lives in every way. My past was boring, BUT it's no one's business including a current parent.  Other than being married before, the sex stuff isn't anyone's business because it was before him. Your big mistake was admitting it, and confiding in this horrible woman. Lesson hopefully learned, keep you sex stuff to yourself.  I've learned you have to be very careful about "friends" and letting them into your circle.  
I hope you didn't use the expression to your husband..."all the guys".  That doesn't look good.  [/quote]

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