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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=ZachF][quote=Anonymous] I totally get that. The way he found out was really *hitty I know. [b]He's also upset that i did what he views as stuff that doesn't interest me in doing with him[/b] which he takes as a sort of insult or something. Anyway this has just spiralled [/quote] Yeah, this has gone from bad to worse. Now he has the image of you doing those things your "friend" may have graphically described, with the knowledge that, while you were fine with doing those things with past guys who now mean nothing, you aren't willing to gift those same things to your husband. THAT is shitty and begs the question, why not?[/quote] You know the thing is that I HAVE told him that ALL the guys before him meant nothing and that's why it was possible that I got into certain stuff. With hubby I knew he was different in all good ways and I wanted to make sure that we started something real and meaningful - which we did. It's not like I don't love or care about him - I absolutely do! But I get that he feels humiliated to find out and figures everybody knows (even though everybody doesn't know). I need to convince him of that[/quote] I've been in a situation like this with my DW. She was "adventurous" before we met. She was the one doing all the talking though. While I admit sometimes it was hot hearing about some of the things she did, if we were fooling around, she had no interest in doing these experiences with me. At first she promised that she would, if I said we should try that sometime. Then she flat out refused and later said she disliked sex (after marriage). So as a guy even if it meant nothing to you. We look at it and think if I mean so much to you, why would you not want to do some of these things with me?[/quote]
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