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[quote=Anonymous]The answer the the question, "what will happen?" is that your house will become a clutter-strewn wreck. I saw this play out with my own eyes. XDH was extremely messy, although our marriage fell apart for other reasons. XDH hated to be bugged to clean up after himself. So I just decided that cleanliness was more important to me than to XDH and it was on me to clean up. That didn't solve the other problems in our marriage, though. Two years after XDH got his own apartment, the kids hate staying there because it's apparently become really terrible. My teen daughter has spent 1-2 nights there over 2 years (their relationship has other problems though). My 18-year-old son, who has his own issues getting his dishes from the sofa to the sink but knows he should do so, recently called XDH's place "disgusting." I actually hope XDH finds a really solid woman who is more successful than I was in helping him with his spending (another problem area) and messiness.[/quote]
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