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[quote=Anonymous]Hi there OP - I am a mom who chaired events at public school and also moving kid to private. Not telling until end of year as kids and parents will want to hang out less before then. My kid already told friends about apportion and they are hanging out with kid less . (Early-mid elementary.) it's human nature to protect yourself from the hurt of a friend leaving by spending time with them less -- so from kids perspective I get it. Have asked kid not to talk about next school yet until end of year.

I am also expecting anger from people (there is this "sell out" type of hostility from a vocal minority of the true public 
school die hards)..... But I've already been through it with older kid that i pulled out....

My advice:
-- they are neighbors so just tell them when ready but do t be defensive or Seek their approval --- just tell them and each child is different

- they may be angry because they can't afford private school and so are more jealous than angry --- it really is t fair that quality of education should hinge on a. Family's wealth (it is hard to get financial aid!)

-- if they are angry at you for sending your kids to private school then they were never real friends to begin with -- seriously, why should they care? You've just saved yourself from wasted time with false friendships

-- lastly, just own yoUr decision -- you may feel guilty for leaving the public school (I know I do!) and miss the local community /friendships - harness this by participating in the silent auction next year - staying in touch with the community.

Good luck![/quote]

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