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[quote=Anonymous]We argue when there are events/pressure. Usually it is me being mad about him rushing/not communicating/being inconsiderate.

A really specific example. Tonight we had an event. Kids welcome. He had a shift to help at the event starting a specific time. We agreed he would help me and the kids out to the car just before his 'shift' so I wasn't alone. (I'm very pregnant) Great. But he kept badgering me while I was eating food/enjoying people, saying it was almost time to help ya outside. He told me 10 minutes. 3 minutes later, he's like, 'ok it's time.'   So after me explaining, hey, you told me 10 minutes but all of a sudden you're pushing me to be done socializing and eating....

We walk out, getting the kids out. The kids start playing in the grass outside. Instead of helping me to the car, he shows me the time on his phone. Gotta go.

I then spent the next 30 minutes wrangling them from playing with friends outside and carrying a sobbing toddler to the car. Again very pregnant. 3 minutes of his time would have saved me a ton of energy.

So he'll be home in 20 minutes--hopefully--and he can freaking do all of bedtime. I'm cooked.

So, back to my answer. He just rushes, feels pressure, doesn't think through. And then it causes problems. If he had slowed down a minute we could have talked it over beforehand, and prevented me being mad. [/quote]

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