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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What topics do you avoid and why? There is nothing I cannot talk about with my husband. Sometimes it hurts or is hard, but we've both learned avoidance leads to resentment.[/quote] We avoid getting in too deep on politics (she's a democrat, I'm republican) and things like abortion. She's pro-choice and while I support a woman's right to choose I am against it. We know what we disagree on and do our best to avoid hot topics. I have enormous respect for her opinions even if I disagree with some of them. [/quote] This is the opposite of us, we really get into the nitty gritty and debate politics, religion, art, current events etc. I am not trying to be snarky, but it isn't it boring, and isolating, to have only shallow surface conversations where you avoid hot topics? Hashing these things out with my DH, even if we don't agree, is so invigorating and makes me feel close to him.[/quote]
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