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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]
Unless you are in danger if you speak up... please tell her!!!

(How is this even a question?)[/quote]

I don't know her, I have met her once. How do I even do that, why would she believe me? [/quote]

Talk to her alone, when you are sure he want walk in and stop you, tell her everything you know. If there's something that she can easily confirm for herself, tell her to look into it but if she doesn't believe you don't lose any sleep, you did your part. Not saying anything in this situation would not be okay imo, especially with a child involved.[/quote]

He will never let that happen. Also she lives in another state and comes to visit occasionally and he goes there. He makes it a state secret when she is in town so no one gets any alone time with her. Me and other co-worker had wanted to take her to dinner and drinks and chat when she was down here one time but he was having no part of that. Co-worker tried to give her her card to contact her and he got it from her and co-worker hasn't heard from her. Only way I can have chat with her may be on FB cause he isn't on FB but I am not linked with her. He isn't my boss but if he finds out I butted in, he could make work difficult.[/quote]

I'm the PP you replied to. You should figure out a way to tell her. Then she as an adult can choose whether to look into it or not. If the fake FB profile you mentioned isn't one she accepts, then or instead, you could send a FB message that just reminds her that you met, says you want to speak with her about an important private matter and ask her to send you her phone number and not tell anyone that you contacted her. If she's over 30 she'll have an idea that it's about him and will send you her number if she wants to know.

If he ever finds out that you contacted her you can say that you contacted her because you wanted to get her advice about horrible menstrual problems you've been having (make it sound yucky...that should stop him righ there) and she seemed like a great listener but you felt embarrassed to tell him all that or for him to know about your menstrual issues after you spoke with her. That should shut him up. If it turns out that she does tell him what you said just say you don't know what he's talking about. There's also HR if he does start to harass you at work. Good luck.[/quote]

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