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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I feel a lot of ambivalence towards SAH moms, because it's always SAH moms and not SAH parents.  It's totally fine if one parent wants to step back from their career and focus on the family (and is often very good for the family!), but there is still a lot of social pressure for women to step into that role that men to not receive. When I got married in my mid 20s, I heard questions about whether I was going to step back when we had kids, whether I was going to take a lower prestige/lower pressure job so my husband could focus on his career and I could the raise kids, etc.  Why didn't anyone ask my husband whether he was going to step back his career ambitions to start a family years before kids were even in the picture?

Until it's seen as an equally acceptable/normal path for men (and men decide to SAH in equal numbers), it will always be a choice that is colored by gender politics.  [b]Even if it's the best choice for your family, it still is a choice that was influenced by societal norms that women have been trying to crack for decades[/b].[/quote]

The solution is to accept that you will never get "approval" for your choices by society at large, and just block out the noise and carry on. You know, it's funny, when you carry yourself with quite, steady confidence people have a way of respecting you no matter what things you choose for yourself and your family. [/quote]

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