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[quote=Anonymous]I'm sorry but the other side of this is that the porr DH thought that coming home late with a stuff to make dinner (not was actual ready to eat meal) was a "gift" after this still nursing DW - home with 2 young children while DH out shopping after her full work day with a THREE HOUR commute. This sounds more like you are clueless and disengaged and are contributing to the stress in the house. If my spouse had this kind of workday - Valentine's Day would have been a weekend kind of celebration. Yes - she was off the wall but day to day - are you two looking at your life choices?? I wonder if your 'laid back' attitude is more a no confrontation/no engagement/obliviousness. If you two have made the decision that you are the primary parent - you both are parents but you actually do have a responsibility to set priorities that protect your kids - and adding stress (like a late dinner on a weeknight) made it seems without consulting each other (did she know where you were??) Yep - this is probably a total double standard and I's be pissed at DH if situation turned around but I have seen too many relationships where the laid-back no stress husband was actually just a passive placeholder adult and not really stepping up to full responsibility and DW pushed to limits[/quote]
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