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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I wouldn't do it but not for the reasons you mention. Why go back to diapers, burping, breastfeeding and all this crap?? you have a nice life with a guy who does not live with you - no additional problems with having another adult in the house and making all those compromises.
Why would you want all that baby hubby crap???
I would never do that![/quote]

If OP decides she doesn't want more children, she needs to tell her boyfriend as soon as possible so he can find a woman to marry and have a family with. It's unfair to drag him along like that. He brought up marriage before, clearly he want a family and kids of his own. If OP doesn't wanna give him that, for whatever reason, them she needs to let him go so he can find what he wants too. It's great that she considers her daughter, but she also should consider him. She can't be selfish just because she already has a child. [/quote]

OP here, you're absolutely right. I told him that I want to be with him, but my daughter comes first. He's still around so it looks like he's willing to make it work one way or another. I know I need to make a decision soon because he really wants a family.[/quote]

Red flag.  You and your daughter would be a family for him.  Sounds like that isn't enough.[/quote]

Him wanting a family is a red flag? How?[/quote]

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