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Reply to "Controlling behavior in a DH due to extreme introversion and anxiety rather than "machismo""
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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I think it's possible that your husband rehearses social situations in his head before going into them, and then when things don't go the way they do in his head for whatever reason, he gets frustrated and lashes out at you. In the school event example, it sounds like it's possible that he intended his introduction to be of both of you but that he forgot to include you in the introduction. Then when you introduced yourself and your son after him, he may have thought that you were correcting him and/or was embarrassed that he didn't remember to include you or whatever information about your son that you provided. Some people cannot navigate situations like this without a script in their heads and cannot improvise well when things go off script. Did you speak with him about these kinds of incidents afterward? What did he say?[/quote]
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