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[quote=Anonymous]I think the question is what will be different in a year?  that's a year you are wasting in case his family doesn't come around.  I'm also wondering about your child.  Is (s)he already bonded to your fiancé?  Do you want to put him/her through another year of growing closer to this man that might never marry you because of family pressure?  I agree with others that you really need to step back.

The thing to think about is that you may end up marrying him in a year, but you need to separate from him and start looking for someone that accepts you totally and would stand up for you to everyone else.  He may realize after a year apart from you that he can't be without you and it may be the push he needs to stand up to his family.  But by staying around for another year you are setting up the dynamics of your marriage - and those dynamics are that his family dictates your family's decisions (when to get married).

My guess is that they want the year to convince him to break up with you, you'd want the year to convince him to marry you and he just waivers in the middle for the next year.

Please call it off and break up with him.  If you and he were meant to be, it'll somehow happen.,[/quote]

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