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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A lot of superficial talk here..makes me sad that so many marriages are seemingly based upon little else than attraction.

My marriage is much much deeper that that I am very fit (a runner) but my H has gained about 30 lbs over the last 5-7 years. I can honestly say I dont love him one iota less than I did when he was 180 lbs and super fit about 8 years ago. 
Do I think he looks better thinner? Of course but I love him as much if not more.....it is so beyond looks.

My own sister has gained quite a bit of weight, and she is now losing it (WW) she is not doing it for her husband as much as she is for herself.

For anyone who would feel threatened or concerned about their spouse and their attraction to them over losing looks, weight gain, aging...your marriage needs a serious recheck.[/quote]

+10000 FIRST SENSIBLE THREAD ON THIS POST.[/quote]
No it isn't because it makes up straw men. Nobody says marriages are hollow without attraction or people love their spouses less if they're not attractive. They just said it's good partnering to try to maintain attractiveness for your partner and it's also good for you and your own happiness and self esteem. [/quote]

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