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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Keeping yourself attractive for your partner is part of the marriage contract. Or at least making the effort. It goes both ways.[/quote]

Agreed. It totally sucks when only one spouse makes this effort.
Fit husband with overweight wife.
How do you suggest I exert pressure for her to maintain her looks?[/quote]

Straight up tell her that her weight is not attractive. Sometimes the truth hurts, but I suspect she either already has an idea of how you feel or is just lazy.[/quote]

Come back and let us know how that goes over. Terrible advice. [/quote]

Truly terrible advice. I think you could invite her to the gym with you, take walks with her, start cooking healthier foods, etc... Make it a couples goal, but don't single her out or shame her. Just have a conversation about a healthier life style for both of you. Something like, hey, I have been wanting to eat healthier or hit the gym more, or me more active and I would love it if you could support me and help me stay on track by going with me, or making sure that we only have healthier foods in the house...[/quote]

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