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[quote=Anonymous]OP you have not answered (or I didn't see it) whether he's got a good pension or other benefits. I'd take that in huge consideration before he gets another job. My dad was low paid like that forever but retired at 50. My mom is still living off that pension now at 78. It is a critical asset if he's got it. If not, how does your retirement planning look? It's harder to get a new job in your 50s because of age discrimination. So that would make me a little cautious about switching. Has he done anything recently to advance his skill set? Is there something like that he can do to get a promotion? Would his job take him more seriously if he did get higher skills? What about your job? Same questions about skill sets,additional training/etc. There might be opportunity for you to advance at your job too. I might sugges smaller steps like that, getting more education/training. It could also boost his confidence to look elsewhere. [/quote]
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