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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Meh, I don't think OP is pearl clutching. This is from someone who both smokes and drinks (albeit not too often with little ones to take care of). Getting high on Xmas morning and coming in for present opening is kind of shitty to do. Just like someone pounding a whole bottle of wine before xmas morning would be weird too. I had a mimosa while present opening (my kids don't quite get santa yet so we didn't do it super early), if I had 1 pull off a bowl, maybe that would be similar but being visibly drunk or high is different IMO. That said, I think jumping to the "you are barred" conversation is so extreme, this is your family- you sound like you love them and view them as important not an obligation- so just have an honest convo with the adults, it bugged you, you want that to be just an evening/after kids activity or not at all in your house or whatever you are comfy with. There is no need to make this a HUGE deal, just be honest. THey will probably feel bad they upset you.[/quote] +1 Absolutely agree. [/quote]
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