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[quote=Anonymous]Even if homework isn't appropriate at that age, deciding not to do it and to try to change the system really doesn't help the immediate problem. Personally, I was always torn between the idea that it wasn't necessary and the desire to teach my kids to fulfill their obligations. I decided that it was better to teach them to fulfill their obligations. I started them on chores at a young age and I required all homework to be done. As to the stress, whenever my kids felt overwhelmed (and even now in HS this happens), I just drop everything and sit with them to get them going. I actually spend far less time with them and they are far less overwhelmed and anxious because I just do it. Once they become calm, they are able to finish on their own. Literally, it takes me like 5 minutes and then I just have to be periodically visible. Never in a million years would I have allowed my child to miss recess and be stressed so I could try to change the teacher. [/quote]
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