Reply to just realized my DH is probably asexual: so sad and angry. It is hopeless right?

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "just realized my DH is probably asexual: so sad and angry. It is hopeless right?"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous]Man here, high drive so take this for what it's worth.

First, absolutely ignore the troll(s) who talk about seeing your vagina during birth.  That has never affected a man, ever, of normal sexuality.  I saw my wife deliver all three kids, and it was miraculous.  Yes, I saw all the blood, feces, etc.  So do most men.  There is some weirdo out there who wants to shame you.  Ignore him as his wife does.

Second, I have/had low thyroid, and it can damper libido and erections, but doesn't zap desire for a year.  TSH is the gold standard, it would show up on a test if he was out of whack.

My guess is he has sexuality or intimacy issues, perhaps both.  Men need to ejaculate on a regular basis.  So if you think you can get an honest answer from him, ask him if and how often he masturbates.  If it's rarely or never, and you think he is being honest, he has a medical issue.  But, more likely, he is taking care of himself, and for reasons you need to straighten out, it isn't with you.

My wife was and is lower libido so you have my sympathy, it wreaks havoc on a marriage.  Your situation isn't sustainable, nor should it be.  [/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics