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Reply to "just realized my DH is probably asexual: so sad and angry. It is hopeless right?"
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[quote=Anonymous]Check for any medical issues first. But honestly, it sounds like he's just low drive. Yes, he should've absolutely told you when you two were dating so you could've made an informed decision about the relationship. I'm not defending your dh at all but I think it's harder for men to admit (even to themselves) that they are low drive. Nonetheless, barring any medical problems beyond his control, he doesn't get to opt of the sex if he knowingly married a woman with an average libido. That's breaks the marital contract in the same way that infidelity does. If he loves you, he should care that you are sexually satisfied. Compromise on a frequency that would be acceptable to the both of you. Go to therapy if you need a third party mediator to figure this out.[/quote]
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