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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why can't he just be there for you then?

Women are supposed to fake it until they make it because men have needs, but I don't understand why guys can't pony up and service their wives, via hand or mouth, and see if that doesn't turn things around.

If it doesn't then look into a medical issue. Actually do both things at the same time. [/quote]

I guess he could, I am not sure how much I would like that though. Being desired is part of what gives me pleasure too, if it is about the mechanics I am actually more efficient at giving myself an orgasm and if it about emotional/physical connection then a good cuddling session will be less awkarwd .. i really don't link the idea of forcing him into it, especially as my self esteem is not on top of the world. With all the bravado about being pretty enough, it is hard at 35 after 2 kids to be naked in front of someone who is not looking at you with eyes glassy with eroctic desire.... brrr just thinking about it makes me cold..[/quote]

But to add PP: you are right that maybe starting and seeing where it takes us, making clear there is no pressure to perform, could help him get in the mood.. I'll try to build up the courage to try it..[/quote]

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