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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, at least he is not blaming you for his lack of interest in sex. [/quote]

Weeelll... to add to the reason I am angry: he originally did.. "you don't wear very clothes, nightgowns, underwears", "you don't do a lot to put me in the mood". Don't get me wrong, He is a very nice person, there is a context to why he said that and I guess I put him on the defensive, but still it was disastrous for my self image. The physical rejection was painful too. You start to feel ugly, dirty, unloved..

Now he is not blaming it on me and tries to assure me that he really loves me. He doesn't seem to understand how being desired is for most people (I assume?)  a key part of being loved. If not, what is the difference with a brotherly love?[/quote]

I meant " you don't wear very sexy clothes, nightgowns, underwears". And to be clear I am generally considered cute if not pretty, and I pay attention to myself.i don't wear mini skirts or plunging necklines but I am feminine and men look at me in the street. I am just adding that in case people start with a whole list of advice on how I should shave my legs or brush my teeth  :) I honestly don't think my appearance is the issue. There could be some secret fantasy he needs and i am not fulfilling but right now he doesn't give me enough guidance (he didn't even look at the the sexier underwear) [/quote]

Post a sexy, neck down photo of yourself so we can advise[/quote]

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