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[quote=Anonymous]By red flag do you mean that you feel she might be trying to flip the script?  Say she doesn't want anything serious but leading that way?  I haven't been in a casual relationship, not looking for anything serious yet not a ONS type thing so I don't what is typical.

Anyway, it seems like you are using long time between contact as a way to keep that distance and not move too fast.  If you aren't comfortable with moving any faster BUT you do like her and think there is a possibility of more in the future, you can either text more but only actually see each other once a week or every other week OR stay on the same pace and say, something back like, you know I like to take things really slow (double meaning intended) and she will have to decide how she feels about that. Mind you, this doesn't necessarily mean that she wants an exclusive relationship but at worst you are leading yourself on with the potential of more in the future. If you know you absolutely are not interested in more than a FWB situation you need to have an in person discussion on what that means to the both of you so you are on the same page and being respectful of each other.  She can then make a decision if she wants the same thing or wants to walk. [/quote]

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