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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I'd work on removing CS from the picture altogether.  This way your DS won't be obligated to spend time with people who clearly disrespect him. [/quote]

:roll: Child support and visitation are two different issues.  Regardless of child support, he is entitled to visits in less mom can find a way to block them.  Mom is not trying to block them.  Dumb comments are not enough to block visits.  At best both parties waste a lot of money fighting over nothing, mom getting a court order for dad's family to stop saying those things and they may or may not comply.  You hurt the child by taking away the Dad.  My husband's kids are really screwed up over the games his ex played while they were growing up.  He paid child support but refused visits (yes, he went to court several times over it and just gave more visits but never enforced them).  Mom told the kids he was a deadbeat and didn't want to see them.[/quote]

Yes, but, at a certain age, wouldn't the Court take the wishes of the child into consideration?  If the child tells the court that he doesn't want overnights at his dad's anymore because of the behavior of step family, would the judge take that into consideration?

They can have lunch, go to a game, watch football in a restaurant.... DS doesn't necessarily need to be sleeping at dad's house and doesn't necessarily need to be spending time with stepmom and her kids.[/quote]

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