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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My 40 something BIL lives here in MIL's house with his 2 illegitimate children.  The children's mother drops in and out of their lives.  She is here now but has no car (we suspect it was relied) so people have to keep driving her places.  When she shows up, she sleeps here so it has caused drama for us all.

BIL smokes (he does it outside) but smells like a chimney which is oh so much fun when I am dealing with a cold.  Oh, and he has apparently ruined his insides with it and makes these awful grunting noises constantly.

Ugh, wish he had kept his dick in his pants.  The kids are sweet and all, but the entire situation is just drama for everyone.  Grandma is basically caring for kids in her retirement.[/quote]

You sound completely awful. I hope those children never overhear you talking about them.[/quote]

I wouldn't say any of this to the children.  It's not their fault that idiots conceived and birthed them.  They didn't ask for this.

But this shit isn't normal.  #1 was an oops.  But then they went and "planned" #2 (yeah, right) and had to move back in with my ILs and go on welfare.  They did this to themselves and I have very little pity for them.

You may think I am horrible and callous, but we have considered filing for custody of the children multiple times.  Neither my BIL or the twit he impregnated twice is a fit parent.  And while grandma is a great person and the only stable influence in their lives, it sucks for her to have to deal with this shitshow on a daily basis.  We'd do more if we were closer, but we live too far away to be of any real help.

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Glad you don't say any of it to the kids, but would you consider also dropping the "illegitimate " label when speaking about them to others? It's not really relevant that their parents are unmarried and comes across as derogatory and disrespectful. As you said, they didn't cause the shitshow so don't add to their burden. [/quote]

Not the poster, but why drop the "illegitimate"?  They are. And it's a description of their sad existence.

It's almost 2017. No one has to have kids unless they want them. Either take birth control or get an abortion if you're pregnant (sorry if I offend any pro-lifers).
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