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[quote=Anonymous]I don't think you're an asshole, but I am wondering about your relationship. You married your husband after he was relatively dismissive of your dying father, so I feel like it must not have been a deal breaker at the time. But now it seems like it's really bothering you because he is not taking you into account as well like you did to him. Is your concern that perhaps he is selfish, or that he doesn't value your feelings? Honestly, he might not have realized that you were sacrificing important time for him because his parents weren't dying and it's hard to understand how that feels, and it is different for every person. For now, I would let him do what he needs to do and not push things. But realize that he might just have a different outlook than you now, and that he may view things differently now that he is experiencing them for himself. What you don't want to do is add fuel to the fire and push him.[/quote]
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