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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You and I may both be assholes because this is nearly identical to my story. My dad died 3 years ago right after Thanksgiving. I get married a year later and the year after that in October, my DH's dad gets diagnosed with cancer. DH demands we drop everything but what his family wants to do "because this could be the last chance." Fast forward another year, and dad is just fine and in remission. I got torn apart by DH anytime I wanted to do something with my family for a year. What he doesn't understand is that by him not allowing me to spend time with my family, I am years behind in grieving. I never got to establish a new norm with my family, but they did it without me. Now I'm a thousand miles away and a complete outsider because I missed that rebuilding time. I resent DH, I don't handle Thanksgiving or Christmas at all, and he yells at me when I see something that reminds me of my dad and get sad. I resent him. [/quote]

I'm sorry. I hope you two find a way forward, because he did take something important away from you.[/quote]

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