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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So.....this will be an unpopular point of view, but I'm in a sharing mood.

Lost my mom when I was 23.  She was my best friend.  It was sudden and awful.

I have very little patience for people 30+ who are thrown into crisis by elderly parents getting sick and dying.

His mom isn't even expecting him until 9 am in the morning and there is absolutely no reason why he could not accommodate your plan, other than being a bit histrionic about his mom.  And I get it--I LOVED my mom.  But again, zero patience for people who get thrown into hysterics about an elderly parent beginning a long decline.  He needs to pace himself.  And show up to fucking Christmas, he has a spouse and a family now.[/quote]

This is an asshole OP. [/quote]

I disagree.  I also lost my dad at 23 after very long battle with cancer and life goes on.  While you need to deal with the crisis, you can't forget your family and responsibilities.  OP's request to her DH was completely reasonable and he should try to be accommodating.
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