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[quote=Anonymous]Fishing. That's what they do. If you are interested then keep him on the line. Otherwise let him go. Guys like that are annoying. They always say women play games but men are the ones who love to play silly games. [quote=Anonymous]I don't get it. Every few months, he will contact me out of the blue, and want to start texting/find out if I'm in the same city/what I'm doing.

FWIW, I have never slept with him, and he's not exactly hurting for female company either, so if this an attempt to get a quick hookup, I think he'd have to be insane.

We kissed once and had a kind of flirtatious relationship before he had to move away, at which point I started dating someone else, but only after he ghosted me and was very non responsive.

I put it behind me and a year later, he contacted me.  We texted for a few weeks, with him sending me songs that "reminded me of him", that were pretty romantic.

I found out later he was in a relationship at that time- only later because I searched for his instagram- he had kept his GF completely hidden from his Facebook.

We finally ended up being in the same city a while ago, and he really wanted to meet up.  At this point, I kind of consider him a friend, although he's not bad looking and I would be open to something potentially romantic, though that seems very hypothetical given our history.  So I told him where I was, out with friends, and we met up and he told me he was going off with his friends to get a drink at the bar.  A guy who I had been seeing came up and put his arm around me for a little bit (again, I'm not dating guy 1 or guy 2, so i didn't think this would be a big deal) and I waited for guy 1 to come back, but we had to leave because my friend group was getting restless.

Since then, he's been really non responsive to my texts (not that I've sent him that many)

I gave it up and then the other day he messaged me again.  I just don't get it.

What the hell does this guy want from me or what is he after?  I'm totally cool with being friends, or if he wanted to think about dating, i would not necessarily be opposed, but I am completely flummoxed and confused as to why he keeps contacting me and then ghosting on me later, seemingly getting angry with me to the point of cutting off contact.  Am I insane?[/quote][/quote]

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