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[quote=Anonymous]This reminds me of the Law of Attraction, which as I understand it, says that happy people attract good things into their lives, and unhappy people attract more unhappy things. If you grow up and take responsibility for your own happiness, you will start enjoying your life more in general. If your spouse is also able to do the same, he'll be more attracted to you (maybe after some initial resistance), and you'll grow closer. If not, he'll just feel threatened, and try to force you to go back to being the unhappy person he is comfortable with, who doesn't challenge him to grow. And then you have some hard decisions to make. Or maybe they're not that hard at that point.[/quote]
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