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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you had to do it all over again, would you have your daughter/child go to a slightly less prestigious school where the competition for the A's (and B pluses) wouldn't have been as stiff?[/quote]

Sorry, I don't have time to read this whole thread.  What competition for A's and B's?  as if the school hands out a certain amount?  My DD had 4 A's and 2 B's last semester. I think her grades reflect the effort I see her put in.   She could definitely spend more time studying but enjoys a variety of activities.   She plays a year round varsity sport and is involved in all types of clubs, etc.  Every school has kids at the top, middle, and bottom.   I guess I'm just not understanding the problem here.  If she wanted straight A's she would need to devote more time to it but that's her choice. I think that's the same at every school.  I care that she is getting a top-notch education and is becoming a well-rounded young adult who can think and analyze. I have no doubt she will be very prepared for college.  That's why I shell out the money each year. [/quote]

Surely though the teachers (even unconsciously) compare your child to their peers when grading?  NCS girls are an almost universally extremely capable bunch.[/quote]

I guess I don't understand your point?  If I thought grading was unfair or off, I would be the first one in there complaining.  Most assignments come home with a thoughtful and thorough write-up about how my DD could improve next time or point out mistakes she makes over and over again.  I have never once thought "she deserves an A" when she came home with anything less.  There is always written feedback from the teachers to back up the grade she earns.  I absolutely love this because it gives her constructive feedback and shows me the teachers actually KNOW my kid.  She is growing leaps and bounds because of the feedback she receives.  This is between her and her teacher and she is learning to advocate for herself and ask questions.  If she is trying her hardest, has built a relationship with her teachers, and is learning to think as she goes along, I am satisfied that her grades actually reflect her effort.

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