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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Watch the movie "Take this Waltz".  I'm actually divorced (starter marriage) but got divorced younger & when I had no kids.  I was miserable living with someone I didn't really love.  BUT also realize the world out beyond is not necessarily full of passion and love and lust ... it's often made up of self-involved jerks and guys who are terrible terrible terrible in bed.  Married now to guy I do love & have 2 great kids - but there were lots of trade offs.  (He is not a great provider & not as able to manage some basic life skills -- and I in turn work my ass off - but end of day, I do love him which does count for a whole lot.) Dating for a decade in between marriages was less than a picnic for the most part.  The dating pool of 40+ yr old men is often men who are not married for good reason, serial cheaters, bad lovers, balding out of shapers, bad providers, etc.  Anyway, watch the movie - romanticizing the shiny thing beyond your current life is often just a mirage.  [/quote]

cant help yourself, can you?  you just have to point out all your husbands imagined flaws.  the inference being yoh feel you settled but thats ok sinc eyou love him.  most likely he settled for you not the other way around.  look in the mirror with the.lights on next.time[/quote]

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